What is Your Love Language?

What is Your Love Language?.png

Did you know that there are 5 different languages of love? What if your language is different than your partner's?

Relationship struggles often occur when partners speak different languages. This is normal and incredibly common! Getting clear on what language you both speak can have a drastic impact on your happiness and resilience as a couple.

Check out this list below for an explanation of each language. Not sure what your love language is? Take this quiz to find out.

#1: Words of Affirmation - You feel most loved and appreciated when the words are expressed to you. Phrases like, “I love you” and “you are beautiful” have a deep impact and bring you joy.

#2: Quality Time - You feel most loved and appreciated while spending time with your person! This could mean going on a trip together or simply talking with each other at dinner. You feel extra close when your partner is sharing the present moment with you.

#3: Receiving Gifts - You feel most loved and appreciated when your partner brings you a gift. It doesn’t have to be anything fancy - a flower or trinket that reminds them of you would make you feel special and seen. 

#4: Acts of Service - You feel most loved and appreciated when your partner takes time to do something for you. This could include doing the laundry, running an errand or completing a project. Bonus points if they do it without you having to ask! 

#5: Physical Touch - You feel most loved and appreciated when you are physically close to your partner. This could include sexual touch but it doesn’t have to. A simple touch on the shoulder or holding hands in the car make you feel connected and cared about.

If you or your partner are unsure about your love language, I encourage you to take the quiz linked above! If your top language is different, you can teach each other how to love more deeply ❤️

What love language differences have you noticed in your relationships? I would love to hear in the comments below!👇🏻

Laura Houd1 Comment